Public insults. Conflict. Persecution. Prison. Confiscated Property. The readers of the the New Testament letter of Hebrews experienced all this in the early days of their walk with Jesus. While I cannot attest to this kind of suffering, I do know trialโwrecked car, bureaucracy headaches, ant infestation, health issues, the passing of loved ones. Like the early Christians, I too need the authorโs counsel on facing trying times.
Everyday Life
Be Strengthened by Grace
I feel like I've done a bunch of things wrong lately. I feel like Iโve done something morally wrong. Like Iโm a criminal, or a bad person. Like Iโve been caught with my hand in the cookie jar when I never actually put it in. Or accidentally put it in. The fact is Iโm a rule follower and I donโt like looking bad.
Cultivating Relationships in the Comfortable Spaces
Some argue itโs easy to love God when life is comfortable. But I propose that itโs actually harder to stay close to and rely on him during these times. How do I nurture our relationship when life is fine, ordinary, and boring? What about when there isnโt a crisis, a hurt, or a longing to take to him?
Scarcity and the Fear of Going Without
โGetting rid of stuff makes me feel lighter,โ my daughter-in-law said. Without thinking, I responded, โI donโt believe Iโll have the means to replace something if I let it go so I keep it just in case I might need it.โ Even as the words were out of my mouth, my heart knew the truth. I still operate out of a scarcity mindset.
Risk vs. Safety, Fear vs. Trust
I received my Covid-19 vaccines with mixed emotions. Grateful for some form of protection while aware that absolute immunity is not guaranteed. Concerned about the possibility that I subjected myself to unnecessary risk, yet heartened by the prospect of mitigating it.
If I Understand it, Then I Can Control It
The desire to figure everything out, to fully understand, and make sense of my world is strong in me. However the events in our nation's capitol last week proved that even more fleeting than the loss of control over my schedule and calendar (due to a pandemic) is any control I thought I had over the beliefs and actions of others. Four guiding truths emerged as I pondered a quote from Emily P. Freeman.
Envy and the Unique Role of Aunts
I am an aunt to some lovely young women and men. I have cultivated individual relationships with them and enjoy my unique role in their lives. Being their aunt gives me a certain advantage over their mothers.
Creating Brings Life to Grief
I'm on another crafting binge. The last time I made so many projects in one stretch was after my dad passed away. When I finally came up for air, I asked myself, "What was that?" I now realize it was my response to grief.